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Friday - work until 5 or 6pm, sister is coming over to get help planning a trip to learn how to surf over spring break with my son.
Saturday - work 10-6p then return a few things to Best Buy, try and purchase a wireless card for my old laptop. Dancing to Roxxy Hall's band at Lee's (if we've got the energy for it)
Sunday - church, then lunch at Old Chicago, see "Transamerica" at Uptown (with ex and some friends) then home before I go to J's to watch the L word.


I can't believe that I got all of this stuff done this weekend. Although, sister coming over seemed pointless because she decided she's going during the summer. I told her she should talk to AAA's travel folks and come up with an idea of where she wants to go before we start looking on the internet for travel deals. Saturday I worked, P came with and did some of her own work. That was kinda fun having her with and she got to see where I work. We also got to have lunch at one of my favorite local places here, Bravo Burritos. As we drove her car, I didn't have a chance to return the stuff to Best Buy until Sunday. I also didn't buy a new card because the new late night guy at work said he might be able to help me. We also have a computer store here that I can probably get the card from. Dancing at Lee's was fun but we didn't stay too late because we finally had the house to ourselves. Turns out that I saw "Transamerica" with just the ex, others canceled. I did run into a friend of mine in the theatre though, this is funny because we both live 40 miles away in a small town. Sunday I also went straight to all of those activities at J's house (including dinner prepared by her lovely gf B). Stuffed pork chops, YUM!

Drama with the ex husband, on ocassion, he's been known to "get sick" more frequently than anyone I know. Either he's got some major stomach problems (self induced stress related?) or who knows what, but he often uses his vacation days for being sick (or maybe not wanting to go to work) and never has any time banked up for a "real" vacation. Apparently he called in sick on Friday and called me to say he couldn't take A because he was sick. First I told him I had plans all weekend and I also asked him what he thinks I do when I'm sick? Apparently the same rules don't apply to me. He also wanted me to be the one to make arrangements for A, I wasn't willing to do it even if the people he was going to ask was my sister and mother. A had kind of a sucky weekend, but I'm so tired of always picking up the slack from my ex and his inability to rise to his responsiblities.

I love the time I spend with P.
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I expect it's going to be quiet tonight. I'm slowly getting over my cold which makes me very happy. I was supposed to have my hot water heater and water softner replaced today but it didn't happen. I'm not sure why, I tried to call the guy that put it in and he didn't answer, nor did his voicemail kick in. I did drop a pretty penny on that, but I should really look at it as an investment in my house. It also got me to finally vacuum the stairs. Gawd, it was getting nasty.

Today was my last working Tuesday for a couple of weeks, next week is the surgery and the following Tuesday I'll be in Iowa with my sis.

Saturday I was suppose to go to see Dar Williams and Girlyman with my ex, T. Her and I broke up 1-29-2004, yep, more than a year and a half ago. When I told her that I was seeing someone recently, she had a hard time with it. Don't get me wrong, I feel bad that she's having a hard time with it but we haven't been a couple for quite some time. Now she's saying she doesn't want to go to the concert, which is okay as I know that I would be present with her but still have thoughts of P. Anyways, so T doesn't want to go and wanted to give me the tickets. I told her that I would want to pay for them and now she's saying to give her less than what she paid for them. This kinda frustrates me as I feel she can be pretty passive aggressive. I tried to explain to her once before about how she doesn't realize the power she does have but I think she just doesn't want to see it...then she couldn't be the victim of the situation. ARGH.. I don't want to hurt her because I do care about her but I'm in a very different place with regards to the situation than she is. Of course, this just reinforces why I don't want to be with her, we operate very differently.

The weekend can't come soon enough. I love having time with my sweetie. Although, we've got to do better at getting sleep! GRIN

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