nah, I'm sure other people do it too. I read through your blog a little...sounds like you're in a tough spot. Reminds me of when I was married...6 years ago, seems like another life ago.
**although, my husband wasn't my bestfriend, it was a lot worse for me until it got a LOT better!
It's tough, but we're getting by. It's weird, we've not really changed much, except that we're not having sex. I guess we'll see what happens if/when one or the other of us starts seeing someone.....
We were in therapy for almost a year and eventually he had an affair(in the truest sense of the word) with his best friend's wife. Lots of other big drama but that's all over with now.
I've thought about therapy for us, but at this point it's a financial issue. We're doing pretty well at talking and communicating so I know that if he was really pissed he'd tell me.
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Date: 2005-05-19 11:55 pm (UTC)**although, my husband wasn't my bestfriend, it was a lot worse for me until it got a LOT better!
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Date: 2005-05-20 02:39 am (UTC)I DESPISE drama, but it always seems to find me!
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