Well, you started out on my friends list because I believe I talked you into getting a LiveJournal of your own after you found my other (now mostly defunct) journal on my website.
And you're still on it because you're pretty freakin' cool.
nah, I'm sure other people do it too. I read through your blog a little...sounds like you're in a tough spot. Reminds me of when I was married...6 years ago, seems like another life ago.
**although, my husband wasn't my bestfriend, it was a lot worse for me until it got a LOT better!
It's tough, but we're getting by. It's weird, we've not really changed much, except that we're not having sex. I guess we'll see what happens if/when one or the other of us starts seeing someone.....
We were in therapy for almost a year and eventually he had an affair(in the truest sense of the word) with his best friend's wife. Lots of other big drama but that's all over with now.
I've thought about therapy for us, but at this point it's a financial issue. We're doing pretty well at talking and communicating so I know that if he was really pissed he'd tell me.
Basically, you seemed like an all around human person posting in a paced and thoughtful manner. Some days a little bit of order really appeals to me and, treating my Flist like a diet, I thought you'd be a well balanced addition. lol. :D
I would have no clue. I'm the most clueless person about that sort of thing, which is why I dread the idea of me actually going out and TRYING to find a girlfriend. It's like lesbian sheep - scientists have no problem proving that gay male animals exist, but finding gay female animals is difficult because the mating instinct for many species is for the female to STAND STILL. That's what I feel like - I wouldn't notice and nobody's gonna notice ME because I'm standing still. :\
that's hilarious...I think I do that too. I especially get quiet when I've got a crush on someone. How great is that? I find someone attractive, stop talking and become invisible!
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And you're still on it because you're pretty freakin' cool.
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**although, my husband wasn't my bestfriend, it was a lot worse for me until it got a LOT better!
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I DESPISE drama, but it always seems to find me!
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Remember the really deep thoughts... yes... ;)
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