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zestfive ([personal profile] zestfive) wrote2007-11-01 12:23 pm
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Email from my sister

Hi Beloved Family,

Well, today is the two-year anniversary of Dad's kidney transplant.
He was doing so well, we expected him to have many more years of good
quality of life. At the Lake Poinsette reunion he even told me he
was being encouraged by his doctor to consider a pancreas
transplant. He wasn't too thrilled about it because it has
apparently much harder recovery (like one year), but the thought of
not being diabetic any more was pretty amazing for him. He said he
was probably going meet with some post-transplant pancreas
receipients to understand more about the recovery. If I remember
correctly, he even went to talk to a specialist about it.

Even though we didn't get to have him long after the transplant, his
quality of life was so much better than it was in the 1 1/2 years
priorto the surgery. People in Iowa would still ask me how he's
doing and I'd say he's like 5 years younger. When I told that to
Dad, he said its like he's 7 years younger! I don't think he would
have had even as good quality of life on dialysis. He got to start
his dream house even if he didn't get to finish it.

He never stopped being amazed by the love and support of his family
(you!). He couldn't get over that 5 people were willing to be
considered as donors.


This breaks my heart, I thought I was getting better at this and today is just very hard.My sister is a pretty amazing person.

[identity profile] fifteenthirty.livejournal.com 2007-11-01 06:01 pm (UTC)(link)
You are getting better. There will always be days that catch up to you but that doesn't mean you're not getting better.

*hugs*

[identity profile] zestfive.livejournal.com 2007-11-04 01:50 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah, I guess I was just a little surprised at how Nov 1 was for me. How are you doing?

[identity profile] zestfive.livejournal.com 2007-11-04 01:51 pm (UTC)(link)
thanks

[identity profile] ignusfaatus.livejournal.com 2007-11-01 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
oh love, sorry. my lj friend jimthecat just wrote about losing his dad too. it was a beautiful hurty story.

im not sure what to say. love to you

[identity profile] zestfive.livejournal.com 2007-11-04 01:52 pm (UTC)(link)
thank you. I also read his posting. I'm not sure what to say either....grin, so we're in good company.

[identity profile] brother-casey.livejournal.com 2007-11-02 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
Wait, did this just happen? If so, I am beyond sorry for your loss.

[identity profile] zestfive.livejournal.com 2007-11-02 03:20 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, my Dad was run over by a truck about 2 1/2 months ago. Thanks for your your kind thoughts.

[identity profile] brother-casey.livejournal.com 2007-11-04 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
I don't read LJ frequently enough, so I apologize for not knowing about this earlier.

Again, I am very sorry for your loss.

[identity profile] zestfive.livejournal.com 2007-11-04 02:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I blog for me especially lately and its good to hear from other people from time to time....even if it's been awhile.

[identity profile] mplsindygirl.livejournal.com 2007-11-02 05:08 am (UTC)(link)
Grief comes in waves for me. Some days feel just fine, then some thing like an email or a song makes me start to cry. I think you're doing reasonably well, since you didn't ask to be grieving right now, or have time to prepare.

[identity profile] zestfive.livejournal.com 2007-11-04 02:01 pm (UTC)(link)
thanks, I appreciate your feedback. Sometimes it's hard for me to see how I'm doing.

[identity profile] cluelessinchi.livejournal.com 2007-11-02 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
It really does not get easier. Just the times that you are thinking about it get less and less. The pain/the hole where he was will always be there. Just be aware holidays,a nniversaries and birthdays will always be hard. Hang in there!

[identity profile] zestfive.livejournal.com 2007-11-04 01:57 pm (UTC)(link)
thanks

[identity profile] zestfive.livejournal.com 2007-11-04 01:58 pm (UTC)(link)
thanks